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Hello My Loves,
I’m tired of apologising. If you follow us, you’ll know how hectic the last two months have been, but I’m back and seeking balance. I love this blog so much, and it should be a priority. So, no more excuses - just action.
Today, we have THE PERFECT way to kick start the summer. We are preparing you to enter a new era of elevated love and connection.
For the love of culture, shared experiences and our wallets, let’s bring back hosting. What happened to a good girl chat in the back garden, on a warm London afternoon? Stay with me while I share the key to hosting a great get-together with a recipe for your spread at the end!
A good get-together has to be three things: memorable, have something to take away, and have good food. I love to switch perspectives, so think about when you enjoyed yourself the most. What do you remember? What moments do you have that remind you of that time (could be as simple as photos)? And what did you eat? I guarantee, even if some other details of this event are hazy, you know these three things. That’s why you have to get it right.
1. Think about your signature. Leave them talking…
What about this event is significant to you? What will you be known for? There is the usual. Great Food, Fabulous Place Settings, Games, but, if you want to take your party to the next level, try a signature scent.
You want something you can keep constant for your guests. This will make your guests feel warm and welcome.
2. What can you give your guests? Turn your Party into a story.
The simplest way to do this is through pictures. A polaroid wall. Give them the opportunity to reminisce on the spectacular night they had and ultimately associate you with a good memory. Again, we don’t do simple, a more elevated moment would be a playlist. Share with them the Spotify playlist of the night. The songs on rotation will always transport them back to your event.
3. You are the stylist of your table!
This is my hosting essentials:
- A signature cocktail, named after something meaningful to you.
- Serve things that are pretty and indulgent, and find fun, new ways to present the food and drinks: Yes, get the fancy ice cubes.
- Never tell people you have dessert, always present it as a surprise. This way they can look in shock. “She even had dessert, how did she have the time?” Sweet treats always go down well.
- Build a food bar, Sometimes people enjoy building their food. Like Tacos. Weird I know, but just go with it. It’s a feeling of accomplishment.
5. You need this Salad.
Justine’s Smile Salad Recipe
Rich in Flavour & Heart Warming
- Rocket
- Baby Tomatoes
- Shredded Carrots
- 1/4 Avocado
- Sundried Tomatoes
- Sea Salt
- Pickles Red Onion
- Apple Slices
- Pomegranates
- Salad Topper Nuts
- Light Dressing of your choice (served seperately)
It’s a bit messy but it’s great. The apple for crunch is my secret!
Hosting isn’t about perfection. It’s about presence. Let the food be a little messy, let the laughter be loud, let the vibe be you. Because the most unforgettable parties are the ones where we show up, glowing, generous, and a little bit glittery. Whether you’re hosting a backyard bash or a rooftop rendezvous, summer parties are your chance to shine, not just as the ‘hostess with the mostest’, but as the curator of vibes, flavours, and unforgettable moments. You don’t need a private chef or a Pinterest mood board that took two weeks; just a killer playlist.
Use this week to do something fun!
With Love,
-JK